Uche Okonkwo 131 views

Dating in Lagos as a 30+ professional — realistic expectations?

Lagos

Between traffic, work stress, and “what do you bring to the table” conversations, is anyone actually enjoying the process?

10 replies

Biodun Eze

Honestly, this is a conversation we need to keep having. Dating in Lagos as a 30+ professional — realistic expectations? affects all of us differently depending on where we live.

Folake Akinwale

I disagree slightly — the situation on ground is more nuanced. Have you considered how it plays out outside Lagos?

Tunde Adeyemi

Following this thread closely. Can someone share a practical example from their experience?

Ada Okonkwo

Make una calm down small — let us exchange ideas without insults. We can disagree without fighting.

Sade Lawal

This reminds me of what happened last year. Policy announcements alone will not fix everything overnight.

Bayo Yusuf

Good point. I think community pressure and accountability matter just as much as government action.

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